Hmm! The answer lies in you and with you. More importantly you stand in the perfect will of God. This must be in your consciousness always.
Your Originality is from God.
The need for you to know your identity in God is very key here else the systems of the world may throw you off balance and being aware of your position in Him brings eternal peace even when you are facing storms.
If you are so conscious of what is happening to people in your life,you may be tending towards losing your position in God.
At the end of the day,it is those who have a place in God that will survive the hardest of times.
Where do you really stand today? Is it in the plan of man or the plan of God.
Remember,Man may fail but your maker will not.